Monday, December 31, 2012

Goodbye 2012... hello 2013



I am spending the remaining hours of 2012 in my PJs with my feet up in a recliner looking out at the Smoky Mountains surrounded by great friends.  This might be the ONLY day in 2012 that I am trying to be bored, but it sounded like a terrific option to me.  Jefforey and I joined Anna and Jeremy Smith and Amberly, Kyle and Lainey Baugh for a 3 night get-a-way to the Smokies to ring in the New Year.  Today, Jefforey went with the Baughs into town to escape cabin fever with the 2 year old.  And as much as I dislike missing out on any action or anything fun… I couldn’t bear the thought of being surrounded by hoards of strangers in the Pigeon Forge outlets today.  So I am sitting my happy self here… like a knot on a log, and I’m loving every minute of it.
 
As I reflect on 2012, it has been a year of continued transition—for which I am both thankful, and ready to leave behind.  For years, I have longed to feel “settled,” and I think we are getting there, but at the same time, I have also learned in these last few years that “settled” may not be in the cards.  As I have repeated so often to remind myself… God has not called us here to be comfortable, but to be the salt and light to a dark world, which is more than likely going to be uncomfortable in every way!  In 2013, I really just want to make my agenda—follow Jesus and HIS agenda.  The end.  Pretty simple list of resolutions, when you look at it that way.  I wanted to take some time to digest the things I’ve learned from the loss I’ve experienced in 2012, and I do have some resolutions that stem from those lessons, but again… the simple resolution is—Follow Jesus.  He was the answer for the world 2000 years ago when he was born in a manger in Bethlehem, and he is STILL the answer for every single question facing our civilization today (and boy are there lots of them!)

In 2012, I left a few things behind that I loved dearly…

In March, I said “goodbye for now” to my Granddaddy.  Not a single day has gone by since that I have not thought of him and selfishly wished he were still here.  I still catch myself trying to call occasionally to tell him about my day, or to talk to him about Trace Parker.  I am most sad that Trace will never get to experience his amazing love—or his cooking.  

Because of this goodbye in 2012—I resolve in 2013 to be better at relationships.  I have a tendency to become so goal oriented, focused and driven that I forget to sit back and enjoy the people God has placed in my life.  I have to get better at this….”just being” with the ones I love.

In June, I said goodbye to my job as manager of fundraising and events for the Alabama/Mississippi chapter of the American Diabetes Association—a job and co-workers that had completed me for 3-1/2 years.  A job where I was completely and utterly satisfied… it was not perfect (as no job or anything else could be), but it was darn near close.  I loved it, and it was VERY difficult to say goodbye.  I know it was necessary to move forward, though.   I am not going to pretend that I haven’t had doubts about my transition, or pretend that I haven’t missed that job!  In the end, only God’s calling and my obedience to that call really matters.  I felt and still feel strongly that I was being called to work at Hospice of Marshall County.  Also, taking a few steps back and gaining a different perspective, I can now see that there were many things about my job at ADA that were unhealthy.  I’ve never been very good at balance, for starters.  That is no surprise to me or anyone who knows me… when I’m in—I’m all in. 

Because of this goodbye in 2012, I resolve in 2013 to not let my work define me…. To remember that I am defined as a child of the King.  I find my strength and my worth, not in the accomplishments of my employment or the approval of my superiors, but in the blood of Jesus.  I resolve to continue to passionately pursue my career “as if working for the Lord and not for men.”  While remaining passionate about my job, I want to be sure and keep my definiteness of purpose finely attuned to the word of God.

In September, I said goodbye to a new church family and areas of service that I had grown to love in a short amount of time.   I had just gotten comfortable singing in the praise band at the Church at Lake Guntersville, volunteering with the kids ministry and teaching some really awesome 3rd grade girls in AWANA on Wednesday night.  We had gotten settled into a new home group, and we were just getting settled… when we felt a calling for a new direction.  So in September, we said hello to a new adventure as Jefforey and I accepted the position as part-time youth directors for Albertville First United Methodist Church. It is a different situation than we’ve ever been in… one that we certainly didn’t expect or even mean to pray for, but again, we believe that we are being obedient to God’s call.  Any nuances or comfort zones shifts that come along with that are secondary. In 2013, I resolve to pour my heart into this new church and move past my preconceived notions and love people where they are, for who they are.  I vow to do a better job of seeing people as God sees them—through the filter of Jesus!  We are all just a bunch of sinners saved by God’s amazing grace trying to figure things out as we go, afterall!

In December, I said goodbye to an old, dear friend in my car—Fiona.  I had received my 2000 silver Pontiac Firebird for Christmas in 2000 when I was just 15 years old.  It was the best Christmas gift ever—keys in the bottom of my stocking on Christmas morning.  What an amazing memory!!  And wow-- She was a great car… took me over 204,000 miles.  I often joked that she and I had become one.  While the driver’s seat was effectively molded to fit my rump… it had become difficult at 7 months pregnant to get in and out of her 6 inch off the ground seats! 




 As with many things in my life, it was time to step out of my comfort zone and into something new!  On December 8th, Jefforey and I made our very first car purchase.  We found a great deal on a 2011 copper-colored Ford Explorer.  I love it!  I will love it even more when it is fixed—unfortunately within 10 days, I was in a traffic accident when a vehicle ran a red light as I was coming through it, but all is well!

Overall, 2012 was a year of big changes.  Other changes not already mentioned include the ever-changing nature of our house, which has been in pretty constant flux over 2012—new roof, new windows, new siding… the list goes on!
This shows you some history of the house...

not great quality photo, but you can see the progress-- just needs paint now!


  And obviously the biggest change has been the whole pregnancy thing.  First the miscarriage in May changed me forever.   And every single day since July 15th (my 27th birthday)  the joy of a (so far so good) healthy pregnancy changes me (and my waistline)in new and exciting ways!  Our whole lives will change completely in the next 3 months when Trace Parker joins our world more tangibly.  He is DEFINITELY already changing our lives—not just my eating/drinking habits and my figure J  He has become quite active in the past several weeks. There are no words to describe how cool it is to feel him react to loud noises, sweet and savory foods and his daddy’s voice.  I am so thankful that I have been given this time to get to know him in a unique way.  We have a singular opportunity to bond like no one else ever will… after all, he is the only one who knows what my heart, my voice, etc. sounds like from the inside!  I am so excited to meet him in 2013!

So while there were definitely some sad parts of 2012, over all—it was an amazing year filled with God’s blessings.  I am anxious to see what 2013 has in store! 

1 comment:

  1. The good thing with cars is that when you said goodbye to one, you know fairly well that you’d be welcoming a new one in no time. After all, cars should be able to match your changing lifestyle. Being a wife and a mom now, the new car would be the more reliable. :) Though, the 12 years with the Pontiac wouldn’t be forgotten soon I’m sure. -->Tyra Shortino

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